Where are all the good men?

imagine the talk among Asians in
Rotherham…..Good people will feel shame….. Lots instead will blame the victims…..girls
from disadvantaged backgrounds…..lured with cheap gifts and
false affection….children seen as trash, by rapists as well as the authorities, including the police.
…..
….
It seems all our societies are struggling to deal with angry young men. Earlier there used to be epidemics, wars, and famines that helped in “mowing the lawn,” to reduce the burden of young men who have nothing to live their lives for, nothing to look for in the future. Simultaneously, women are now coming out of the shadows and they are also less willing to tolerate nonsense. Hence the men are facing a crisis situation: you may still take out your frustrations at work by beating up the lady at home, but society (not just the law) is much less forgiving these days.

We have never thought much about the love jihad narrative, but the role of society in trampling the wishes of men over women must not be under-estimated. Why should men (all communities) today get social sanction for multiple marriages?

Even worse, why should men be allowed to get away with abusing women for decades as the men in charge look the other way? Why did the courageous few fathers who attempted to rescue their daughters get arrested instead? Why did the victims themselves get arrested for drinking problems? Why did it take four reports over ten years for the police to acknowledge serious problems? Why was there no community outreach to the women (whites as well as minorities)?
.
Given powerful evidence of industrial scale sexual abuse, why are there still no public naming and shaming of the responsible officials? Why does it have to be women such as Prof Alexis Jay and Yasmin Alibhai Brown (see below) to stand up for other (all) women?
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There have been a few heroes such as Andrew Norfolk of the Times who blew the whistle on the piss-poor performance of the Rotherham police and the child services. We wish there were more folks like him.

Society needs more good men who will lead the youngsters to a path filled with hope, instead of anger. Perhaps an institute for developing male leaders in the new age? Less of the old, my way or the highway boss, more of the enlightened leader-servant. Else we will be on a fast-track to a broken society….as the men fall down, they will also drag the women along with them.
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…..report on child sexual
abuse in Rotherham, South Yorkshire, between 1997 and 2013
: About 1,400 children
were sexually exploited in Rotherham over a 16-year period,
although no
one knows the true scale of exploitation over the years. In more than a
third of these cases the youngsters were already known to child protection agencies.

Written by Prof Alexis Jay, a former chief
inspector of social work,
the investigation concluded that the council
knew as far back as 2005 of sexual exploitation being committed on a
wide scale by mostly Asian men, yet failed to act.

….
This is the
fourth report clearly identifying the problem of CSE in Rotherham.
The
first, commissioned by the Home Office back in 2002, contained “severe
criticisms” of the police and local council for their indifference to
what was happening under their noses.

……
But instead of tackling the issue,
senior police and council officers claimed the data in the report had
been “fabricated or exaggerated”, and subjected the report’s author to
“personal hostility,” leading to “suspicions of collusion and cover up”,
said Jay.

…..
Council and other officials sometimes thought youth
workers were exaggerating the exploitation problem. Sometimes they were
afraid of being accused of racism if they talked openly about the
perpetrators in the town mostly being Pakistani taxi drivers.

….
Roger
Stone, Rotherham’s Labour council leader since 2003, said that he had
stepped down with immediate effect
following the publication of the Jay
inquiry. “I believe it is only right that I, as leader, take
responsibility on behalf of the council for the historic failings that
are described so clearly in the report and it is my intention to do so,”
he said.

…..
Jahangir Akhtar, the former deputy leader of the
council, is accused in the report of naivety and potentially “ignoring a
politically inconvenient truth”
by insisting there was not a
deep-rooted problem of Pakistani-heritage perpetrators targeting young
white girls. Police told the inquiry that some influential Pakistani
councillors in Rotherham acted as barriers to communication on grooming
issues.

…..
On a number of occasions, victims of sexual abuse were
criminalised – arrested for being drunk – while their abusers continued
to act with impunity.
Vital evidence was ignored, Jay said, with police
apparently trying to manipulate their figures for child sexual
exploitation by removing from their monitoring process girls who were
pregnant or had given birth, plus all looked after children in care.

…..
Jay
concluded that from 1997-2013, Rotherham’s most vulnerable girls, some
as young as 11, were raped by large numbers of men. Others were
trafficked to other towns and cities in the north of England, abducted,
beaten, and intimidated, with some children doused in petrol and
threatened with being set alight if they told anyone what had happened.

…..
No
case involving Rotherham men came to court until November 2010 when
five “sexual predators” were convicted of grooming three girls, two aged
13 and one 15, all under children’s social care
supervision, before using them for sex. In the past 12 months, 15
people have been prosecuted or charged with child sexual exploitation
offences in Rotherham.

…..
The victims were offered gifts, rides in
cars, cigarettes, alcohol and cannabis. Sex took place in cars, bushes
and the play areas of parks.

…..
A mortgage adviser who drove a BMW
and owned several properties promised to treat a 13-year old “like a
princess”. Another man pulled the hair of a 13-year old and called her a
“white bitch” when she tried to reject his attempt to strip her.

……
Keith
Vaz, chair of the home affairs select committee, which interviewed
Rotherham council officials during its own inquiry, said: “When we took
evidence, Rotherham council were in denial and Stone is right to step
down. Others responsible should also be held to account.

…..
In
summer 2013 Vaz’s select committee published its own report, which
criticised the council and the police in Rotherham, particularly for the
lack of prosecutions over a number of years. That report was prompted
in part by an investigation by the Times reporter Andrew Norfolk, which
alleged that Rotherham police and council had deliberately covered up
CSE. 

……
Jay’s report is particularly critical of the authorities’ failure
to engage properly with the 8,000-strong members of Rotherham’s
Pakistani-heritage community.
Akhtar, deputy leader until he lost his
seat in May, told Jay he had not understood the scale of the child
exploitation problem in Rotherham until 2013. 

Jay writes: “He was one of
the elected members who said they thought the criminal convictions in
2010 were ‘a one-off, isolated case’, and not an example of a more
deep-rooted problem of Pakistani-heritage perpetrators targeting young
white girls. This was at best naive, and at worst ignoring a politically
inconvenient truth.”

……
She found that attempts by senior people in
the council and the police to downplay the ethnic dimensions of CSE in
Rotherham were ill judged. There was also a failure to engage with women
in the Pakistani community,
she said, writing: “There was too much
reliance by agencies on traditional community leaders such as elected
members and imams as being the primary conduit of communication
with the
Pakistani-heritage community.”

……
Other than two meetings in 2011,
there had been no direct engagement with either men or woman from the
Pakistani community about CSE over the past 15 years, she added.

The
issue of race, regardless of ethnic group, should be tackled as an
absolute priority if it is known to be a significant factor in the
criminal activity of organised abuse in any local community, wrote Jay. 

She suggested councillors can play an effective role in this,
“especially those representing the communities in question, but only if
they act as facilitators of communication rather than barriers to it.
One senior officer suggested that some influential Pakistani-heritage
councillors in Rotherham had acted as barriers.”

…………………..
The report by Professor Alexis Jay into child sexual exploitation in
Rotherham is both appalling and yet strangely reassuring. Professor Jay,
who is clearly committed to justice and equality for all, has produced
her findings without fear or favour. This is new and rare, and I welcome
it. Most of the perpetrators were described as “Asian” by the young
victims, some only 11 years old.





White experts and officers have for too long been reluctant to
confront serious offences committed by black and Asian people.
Such
extreme tolerance is the result of specious morality, that credo that
says investigating such crimes would encourage racism or enrage
community activists and leaders, or, worse, make the professionals
appear racist. 

So, instead of saving children who were being gang raped,
drugged, assaulted, threatened and terrorised, they chose to protect
rapists, abusers, traffickers and drug dealers. And themselves.

I can imagine what the talk will be among Asians in
Rotherham today. Good people of course will feel shame. Lots, however,
will not, and instead will blame the system or the victims – young girls
from disadvantaged backgrounds who were lured with cheap gifts and
false affection. Such children are seen as trash, low life, by their
rapists as well as the authorities, including the police.

The
perpetrators are not paedophiles in the normal sense of the word. Racial
and cultural odium as much as ugly lust and power drives them to abuse.
Most of them are also irreversibly misogynist. It is a lethal mix, this
sexist psychopathy.

I partly blame their families and
communities. Too many Asian mothers spoil their boys, undervalue their
girls, and demean their daughters-in-law. Within some British Asian
circles, the West is considered degenerate and immoral. So it’s OK to
take their girls and ruin them further. Some of the most fierce rows I
have ever had have been with Asian women who hold these disgusting
views.

I ask them to think what they would feel if gangs of white
men took out their girls, gave them presents, took them places, and then
seduced, beat and passed them around. The men might say they were
rescuing the girls from oppression, showing them a good time, saving
them from a life of forced marriage and all that.

Yes,
racists will have further ammunition after this report. Blame those who
did what they did, not those who are brave and just enough to expose
them. I will always fight for the rights of minorities. But I will not
defend the indefensible.

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Link (1): theguardian.com/rotherham-abuse-report-finds-1400-children-were-victims

Link (2): independent.co.uk/rotherham-child-abuse-scandal-apologists-misogyny-and-double-standards

Link (3): rotherham-sexual-abuse-children
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regards

Moshe and his (new) Imma

….candles mark the spot where Rabbi Holtzberg was shot
dead….pictures adorn the stairwells……Rabbi Kotlarsky helped rebuild the centre…..”You can overcome challenges, even the most
horrific of challenges…..You can and must rebuild….hope that evil will not prevail”
….
….

 …
Six years have gone by, in the blink of an eye. Today (August 26) is the grand re-opening of the Chabad House, in Colaba, downtown Mumbai (same location where the 26/11 attacks took place). It all looks quite gorgeous and we do not doubt the sincerity of the folks involved. Having said that, it does seem that these people have some sort of a death wish.
…..


Given the hostile relationship between Indian and Pakistan (only 960 years of warfare left) it will be a brave man who can guarantee that 26/11 will never repeat. From what is known about the current state of (safety) preparations, we have grave doubts.
….

….
The little orphan boy (Moshe Holtzberg) is now 8 years of age (he looks to be a complete cutie pie) and his nanny (Sandra Samuel of Mumbai) is with him. For a person who is so unfortunate as to lose his mother (and father) as a baby, it is sure nice that he has a mother-figure to love him and make him feel loved. A thousand cheers for the Imma (mother in Hebrew) and her boy.

……….
Moshe
Holtzberg, the Jewish toddler who survived the 26/11 Mumbai terror
attack, is “doing well”, growing up in a “complicated situation” with
his grandparents, and Tel Aviv thanks Indians for saving him, the
Israeli envoy here has said.

“He is going to school. He is a
very healthy, happy and a strong kid, growing up under a very
complicated situation,” ambassador Alon Ushpiz said during an hour-long
meeting with editors at the IANS office here.

“He is growing up
without his parents. This obviously isn’t easy. He’s staying with his
grandparents,” the envoy said. “Also, in this case, an Israeli was saved
by an Indian citizen. His nanny took him out.”

When IANS spoke on phone to Moshe’s grandparents in November, he was
with them in Afula, a city in north Israel, 140 km from Jerusalem. They
said he was growing into a self-assured lad and was like any other
seven-year-old boy.

Moshe escaped thanks to his Indian nanny, Sandra
Samuel. She risked her life to rescue the toddler who was sitting beside
the blood-soaked bodies of his parents, crying. Since then she hasn’t
left him and was given Israeli citizenship.

………….
….
On Tuesday, Aug. 26, surrounded by guests and more than 25 Chabad
emissaries in Asia who will be there for a regional conference, Chabad
of Mumbai’s headquarters—also known as Nariman House—will open its doors
once again.


….
“This will definitely be very emotional for many people,” affirms Rabbi Yisroel Kozlovsky, who now co-directs Chabad of Mumbai together with his wife, Chaya
“This six-story building was continuously operating until the attack.
We’re not moving into a new building; we are returning to our original
building, and we will be continuing all of the activities that took
place here, and hopefully, grow even more.
“We remember what happened, but we are working for the future.”

….

Kozlovsky explains that after a year-and-a-half of living and working
together with his wife in Mumbai, he more fully understands why Gabi
rushed to purchase a large building for his operation.



“There are so many possible complications here, bureaucratic and
otherwise, that it becomes very difficult to work without a permanent
base,” he says. “Now we will have security rooms, a synagogue, offices,
guest rooms, a restaurant and a commercial kitchen.
 

It will be very
different than running things out of a 1,200-square-foot apartment, but
it will, G‑d willing, allow us to grow. And it is, of course, fitting
that we do this in the same place as Gabi and Rivky.”


…..
He adds that the official opening will also serve as the starting
point for the next phase of reconstruction: a $2.5 million museum to be
built in the apartment where the Holtzbergs lived and on the floor where
most of the murders occurred.


….
“I think this is really a message for the whole world,” adds
Kotlarsky. “You can overcome challenges, even the most horrific of
challenges. You can and must rebuild, and this project serves as a
beacon of light and hope that evil will not prevail.”

…….

By all accounts, Jewish life in Mumbai has benefited a great deal
since the Kozlovskys arrived. And the size of the community itself has
grown, including the new addition six weeks ago. Chaya Kozlovsky gave
birth to their second child, a baby boy, whose brit milah was celebrated at the Knesses Eliyahu Synagogue in the city.


….
“I think it’s the first Indian Menachem Mendel,” jokingly observes the new father.

While continuing ongoing Chabad projects, many of which were
initiated by the Holtzbergs, the Kozlovskys have worked diligently on
increasing their activities. 

A Jewish kindergarten will open in time for
this school year, and with the recent opening of Mumbai’s new diamond
district in a different part of the city, they have established a
satellite Chabad center in that area to serve business travelers.

……

Link (1): 6-years-after-the-horrific-26/11-attacks-Mumbais-Chabad-House-reopens

Link (2): Jewish-toddler-survivor-of-26/11-attack-doing-well

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regards

An all-weather friend

…..Pakistanis will not countenance
infringement by India of their sovereignty….imposition
of conditionalities….exactly the kind
of whimsicality and bullying that led to the Austro-Hungarian Empire
attacking Serbia a hundred years ago…..


Pakistanis have a long running complaint about India….the Indian Press is unreasonably jingoistic. The expectation is that (just like in the West) Indian journalists should be speaking in multiple voices and be open to a broad range of viewpoints.

Thus, for example, while Israel has formidable champions amongst neocons, the denizens of Gaza draw a lot of sympathy from the left-liberal side. There are even opinion makers who back the regimes in Iran and Syria, urging accommodation from a realist standpoint (they may not be our bastards, but we need them on our team to fight other bastards).

Given that there is so much unfinished business from Partition I and Partition II, we feel that it is unrealistic to expect much in the way of fair and balanced journalism when it comes to coverage of South Asian politics. This can be traced back to the (massively influential) two nation theory: for every
Hindu truth, there exists an equal and opposite Muslim truth.
For Partition II and the events leading up to the 1971war, there is a further tweak– a Hindu truth, a Bangladeshi Muslim truth, and a Pakistani Muslim truth!!!
………
Sandipan Deb (link below) makes this pertinent observation from a meeting between Indian journalists and General Musharraf in 2001:
……

Thirty years later, at the breakfast meeting with Indian editors during the Agra summit, Pervez Musharraf
brought up 1971.  

He accused India of being a wanton aggressor—an
utterly delusional and repulsive statement that denied the shameful
rejection of national election results; an inhuman genocide
(codenamed
Operation Searchlight) that left three million people dead—including all
doctors, engineers, teachers, intellectuals the Pakistani army could
find—and hundreds of thousands of women raped (perhaps the first time in
the 20th century that rape was used systematically as war strategy);
and India overwhelmed with 10 million helpless refugees from what would
soon be Bangladesh.

…….

This is the Hindu truth which (in its full form) claims that 1971 was primarily an ideological war waged by the Pakistani Army against Hindus in Bangladesh. 

The target #1 was Hindu intellectuals: the teachers, the doctors, the professors (referred to as buddhi-jibi in Bong). Target #2 was the Bengali Hindu peasants. People used to be killed upon inspection of the male organ (circumcised or not).

Of the ten million refugees were driven out from their land, the overwhelming majority was Hindu. They were never invited back and (shamefully) many remain as refugees scattered across India, even after 40 years have gone by.  

The truly interesting claim is this: the genocide of Bangla Hindus was suppressed by the “secular” Mujib-Indira team…..because they wanted to portray a national struggle to the world, not another Hindu vs. Muslim fight.
……………………………….
The Pakistani Muslim truth is what General Musharraf alludes to in part – India as a wanton aggressor – but for the full flavor one should refer to school text books of Punjab (link below):
..

The Punjab Textbook Board published the following text on the causes
for the separation of East Pakistan in 1993 for secondary classes —
 

..
“There were a large number of Hindus in East Pakistan. They had never
truly accepted Pakistan. A large number of them were teachers in schools
and colleges. 

 ..
They continued creating a negative impression
among students.
No importance was attached to explaining the ideology of
Pakistan to the younger generation.

The Hindus sent a
substantial part of their earnings to Bharat, thus adversely affecting
the economy of the province.
 

Some political leaders encouraged
provincialism for selfish gains.
They went around depicting the central
Government and (the then) West Pakistan as enemy and exploiter.
Political aims were thus achieved at the cost of national unity.”

……

To this one can add Sharmila Bose’s thesis (which gains credibility because a Hindu Bengali is on record supporting the Pakistani Muslim Truth).

As she tells it (and we paraphrase) Pakistani Army Officers (as well as foot-soldiers) being highly noble in disposition, extremely disciplined through training, and unimaginably chivalrous by heart, could not possibly have carried out many (any?) attacks. Some bad things may have happened in the fog of war, nothing more.

Bose concludes that actually it was the Mukti Bahini who killed huge numbers of innocent Biharis and further suppressed the fact by inventing fictional genocides and rape-fests.
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Finally you have the Bangladeshi Muslim Truth. To put it briefly (and simplify), we (Bangla Muslims) were under the boot of the Hindus (and the British) for centuries. We got rid of both of them in 1947. Next, we were oppressed by the Punjabis (who stole our jute money). We got rid of them in 1971.

India was (as usual) up to some mischief but we gave a fitting reply to all that in 1975. Some Hindus may have left voluntarily for India. A few Bihari traitors got what they deserved, nothing more.

………………………..

All that said there is that familiar observation of India being a land of contradictions- whatever you think of India as true, the opposite is also true.

As long as Mani Shankar Aiyer – born in Lahore (10 April, 1941) and presently, Congress MP from Rajya Sabha – is around, Pakistan is assured of an all-weather friend. He has always been an Aman ki Asha type, and he has now openly accused the Modi govt of being a bully (and being whimsical).

Not only that. MSA has issued a most dramatic (melodramatic, in our opinion) warning that just like World War I was ignited through the Austrian empire making unreasonable demands of Serbia, there is a prospect of World War III breaking out in the sub-continent unless India under Modi stops being unreasonable. What more does a friend have to say?
…….

Working out a viable relationship with Pakistan is in India’s vital
national interest. But the wholly bogus nature of the Narendra
Modi-Nawaz Sharif bonhomie on the occasion of Modi’s republican
coronation now stands revealed in all its nakedness. 

….
In a childish
display of extreme petulance, the India-Pakistan foreign secretary-level
talks have been called off.
The excuse proffered is that the Pakistan
envoy had met with, and was scheduled to meet again with, Kashmiri
“separatist” leaders on the eve of the talks. He had been warned after
Round I of his interaction with them that if Round II took place, India
would spurn dialogue and revert to the two-year-long stand-off.


….
The excuse is wholly misplaced. The Simla Agreement of 1972 removed
Jammu and Kashmir from the international agenda and effectively placed
it in the ambit of bilateral discussion and resolution: “a final
settlement of Jammu and Kashmir”. The trade-off was simple. India
recognised that there were issues relating to J&K that needed to be
resolved and Pakistan agreed to secure the resolution of these issues
bilaterally instead of in an international forum. 

….
In actual fact, India,
much more than Pakistan, especially in recent decades, has shied away
from bilateral dialogue, while Pakistan has attempted from time to time,
but without success, to revert to the UN. But the basic position today
continues as it was four decades ago at Simla — India accepts that there
is an external dimension to J&K, and Pakistan that dealing with
these issues is strictly remitted to the bilateral, not multilateral,
sphere of diplomatic interaction.


….
On the domestic front in India, the principle of “the sky is the
limit” has long been instituted for determining the parameters of
“autonomy” for J&K; autonomy that must, however, fall short of
challenging the integrity of India or the finality of J&K’s
accession to India. All else is negotiable. 

….
On the external front, it is
recognised as legitimate for Pakistan to raise issues relating to “a
final settlement of Jammu and Kashmir”. It was in pursuance of this legitimacy granted to Pakistan by the
Simla Agreement of 1972 that, just under two decades ago, the P.V.
Narasimha Rao government recognised the legitimacy of Pakistani envoys
and political leaders including Kashmiri “separatists” (under the
umbrella of the Hurriyat) in their consultations in preparation for
successive phases of the ongoing dialogue process. 

…..
There has thus been a
bipartisan, indeed, multipartisan understanding within India (at least
till now) that such interaction falls in a class by itself and so does
not constitute a casus belli or even a casus diplomati to break off the
bilateral dialogue to which both are pledged.

….
Had Modi any new objection to this, he was duty-bound to make it
clear to Nawaz Sharif when he met him in New Delhi and they discussed
the resumption of the dialogue. The Pakistan desk of the ministry of
external affairs knows full well that Nawaz Sharif was attacked on his
return to Pakistan from New Delhi for his failure to meet with the
Hurriyat, as his predecessors had done. 

…..
This became such a big issue
that when I was in Pakistan days later (in the august company of Ved
Pratap Vaidik), both formally and informally, this was stressed. Thus,
the consequences of warning High Commissioner Abdul Basit against
maintaining his scheduled meeting with the “separatists” should have
been clear to the meanest intelligence in the MEA. If the meeting with
the Hurriyat leaders were called off, the howls of protest in Pakistan
would have drowned all attempts at dialogue. There was nothing to be
gained from making an issue of such a trivial matter.


….
I say “trivial” because nothing earth-shattering, either for us or
the Pakistanis, has resulted from earlier meetings of the Hurriyat with
the Pakistanis, including visits of Hurriyat leaders to Pakistan that we
ourselves had permitted. From a Pakistani point of view, meeting the
Hurriyat is an excellent way of selling to the Pakistani public the
explanation that “Kashmiri” wishes are not being ignored or bypassed in
the dialogue process. 

….
From the Indian point of view, the “separatists”,
who are Indian citizens, whatever their view, are of such significance
as to have warranted our “interlocutors” talking to them. What harm,
then, can come of Geelani et al letting off steam in Pakistan House —
the same steam they let off on a daily basis in the Valley?


….
Then there is the question of sovereignty. Pakistan may be weaker
than India in every respect but there is at least one in which Pakistan
is our equal and will remain so, and that is in the dimension of
sovereignty. If India as a sovereign country refuses to buckle under
Pakistani pressure, it is only natural that Pakistanis will not
countenance infringement by India of their sovereignty. That is why the
imposition of new conditionalities, flying in the face of precedents,
will be seen as infringing on Pakistan’s sovereignty. 

……
The parallel being
drawn in some quarters with India snubbing Pakistan by talking to
Baloch separatists is as misbegotten as it is misplaced, for Balochistan
is not an issue between India and Pakistan. We have neither had nor
sustain any claims on Balochistan. On Kashmir, the Pakistanis do — and
that has been acknowledged by India, even if India is (rightly) adamant
that there can be no compromise on its sovereignty over the whole of
J&K, as a result of the Instrument of Accession and Article I of the
J&K constitution.


….
Such are the subtleties of diplomacy. They go ill with foreign policy
strutting on a 56-inch chest. I am sure the MEA as an institution knows
all this but is helpless because all power is being increasingly
concentrated in one authoritarian. 

….
We stand warned that whimsicality and
bullying are going to characterise our relations with Pakistan over the
next five years; exactly the kind of whimsicality and bullying that led
to the Austro-Hungarian Empire attacking Serbia a hundred years ago,
leading to the devastation of the two world wars.

…….

Link (1): indianexpress.com/being-a-bully

Link (2):  livemint.com/hard-truths-about-Pakistan

Link (3): dawn.com/pakistan-textbooks
……

regards

Chilling hypocrisy

….”The moment I realised that the illustration had created a
controversy and had hurt many people, I deleted the tweet for having
inadvertently hurt their feelings”….

….
We do not question the right of Teesta Setalvad to tweet vile pictures….freedom of speech must work (and seen to be working) for offensive speech. We are miffed because she considers all of us to have the IQ of a…..we are unable to point to a living organism that would be stupid enough to fit….who will find nothing improper or bizarre in her explanations (see detailed statement below).

We inadvertently hurt feelings of others when we are not sufficiently aware of how they think and if we do not understand (and appreciate) their beliefs. This is how we get Ganesha Toilets to be marketed in the West. But come on…a jihadi Kali…AND a jihadi Krishna?  
….

….
Surely ignorance is not an excuse when you are
known the world over as a champion secularist (this is sincerely meant),
as a symbol of peace and as a person who stands up against hatred. You want to be a flame-thrower and then plead ignorance? What next, kill your parents and seek mercy as an orphan??

Setalvad is exposed as just another bigot, who
plays the same game that she accuses Hindutva-vadis of doing…dividing
people in the
name of religion. Such examples of moral blindness will gravely harm the secular
cause (we take no pleasure in saying so, but if she was that
un-thinkingly brave she could have thrown in a photo-shop of the
Prophet in the mix as well).

Thing is, we are convinced that activists such as Setalvad mean well. The message they hope to convey is also a fair one: terrorism committed by Hindus can be every bit as vile as terrorism committed by Muslims. Also, while religion is blamed for fomenting trouble (and we have often voiced such a sentiment ourselves), the underlying cause is often elite greed, the powers that be rule, do so by dividing we the commoners. If religion was not a divisive factor, they would find something else (language, caste,..).

There was indeed a much better way to promote the message that she wanted to convey. Muslim clerics have repeatedly denounced the actions of the Caliphate in Iraq. Why not say that the way of the jihadists is not the way of majority of muslims?

Secularists should be focused on ways to neutralize (or at least mitigate) the harmful side-effects of religion…..this will not be achieved by setting one religion against the other. If Setalvad has not figured this out by now she should step back from the cauldron…pronto.

Setalvad has now made a nice little rod for her own back. A number
of FIRs have been launched, even otherwise her life may be in danger
. We sincerely hope that she (or an associate) does not get hurt, though their credibility will be hurt…for a long, long time.
…….

….
Two FIRs were lodged in Gujarat on Saturday against social activist
Teesta Setalvad for uploading objectionable images of Hindu deities on
Twitter.



….
The first FIR was lodged at Ghatlodia police station here by Vishwa
Hindu Parishad activist Raju Patel, while the other was filed by Kirit
Mistry at C Division police station in Bhavnagar.



….
Further, an application seeking legal action against her was filed at
Gomtipur police station in Ahmedabad by a Shiv Sena worker Jitu
Solanki.



….
Setalwad had yesterday tweeted a photo-shopped picture showing, among
other things, ISIS terrorists with the American journalist James Foley
just before his beheading.



Inspector AG Gohil of Ghatlodia police station told PTI that Setalwad
had been charged with various offences under the Information Technology
Act and Indian Penal Code sections 153(a) (promoting enmity between two religious groups) and section 295 (a) (outraging religious feelings).



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As per the FIR filed in Ahmedabad, “the photo showed a member of
minority community with the Sudarshan Chakra while another photo showed a
terrorist beheading a journalist. This act by Setalwad has hurt the
religious sentiments of Hindus”. 

Setalvad, on the other hand, apologised
on Saturday on her blog as well as on Twitter.


 “Sincere apologies for inadvertent tweet,” she tweeted.

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Link: firs-against-social-activist-teesta-setalvad-in-gujarat-over-controversial-tweet

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regards

The man loved by (all) women

…..”I want to create new Pakistan not only for you
but also for me…once Naya Pakistan becomes a reality, I will
marry”…..62-year-old Khan said to thunderous applause…..
 
…..
What do women want? Do they blindly, madly fall in love with a 62 year old man, who is still described as a …heartthrob? Your child will be 18 when your man reaches 80!!! We are not ill-wishers of anyone, but what if he does not reach 80? What then??
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We are agnostic on the WDWW question, but it is our sense that women want exactly the same things as men. They want power, money, glory (we are talking of ordinary people, not saints). In our opinion, most men want a loving family just as much as women. Once we reach true equality in society we would expect a much higher number of risk-taking, balls-busting women villains (not just the sly, manipulative ones).

But for now, it is a man’s world and the path to glory, money, and power is usually channeled through men. This is perhaps a major reason why women feel attracted to men, especially those who (as they know in their hearts) would not have much time for them, who cannot relate to them, who may like them (as we like any of our possessions) but cannot love them.

Thus a twenty year old girl may not mind marrying a 60 year old man (even if he is married), and dream of having babies and creating a clan where SHE rules (as opposed to the old hag who is unceremoniously pushed off stage).

As for the men…well what can we say? Your ego may tell you that a girl, young enough to be your daughter, loves you for your special qualities…well think about it. Would you marry an old lady for p-m-g (surely there are some men who will do so)? Would you honor her and respect her…and even love her? Could you??
……….

Cricketer-turned-politician
and a heartthrob Imran Khan, who is leading his Tehreek-e-Insaaf party in
anti-government protests here, has said that he will marry once his dream ‘Naya
Pakistan’ was fulfilled.  
……
In
his daily nightly address, Khan last night told this to thousands of his
supporters camping in front of parliament, demanding Prime Minister Nawaz
Sharif’s resignation.
…..
“I want to create new Pakistan not only for you but also for me because
once Naya Pakistan becomes a reality, I will marry,” 62-year-old Khan said
to thunderous applause.

……
Khan married British heiress Jemima Goldsmith in 1995 but the marriage flopped
and both agreed to separate in 2004.
……
They have two sons, Sulieman and Qasim, who live with the mother in Britain.
…….
There are reports that Khan was under family pressure to marry again to put an
end to media speculation and some nasty comments in the social media about his
alleged affairs.
…….
Khan still has kept himself fit and is considered very popular among women.

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Link: Imran-wants-to-marry-in-Naya-Pakistan

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regards

‘are we reading or writing tonight?’

Raju
guarded his crate of Hercules Rum like a sentinel……clank the
latch on the gate a specific number of times in a peculiar rhythm
that only Raju and his regular clients knew….and this he kept changing
every week….Raju would emerge from the dark, the bottle cradled in
his arms.
….
….
As Arun Ram explains: “reading” is code for rum, “writing” for whisky.

We have mixed feelings on this, we dislike the booze culture, but we dislike prohibition even more. The pressure has to come from society, through education and via persuasion. Yes, we admit that religion has a role to play as well. Else all you will do is drive the business under-ground and bring forward more death and suffering.

Still there is one bright aspect of prohibition (apart from the fact that it has never worked..despite trying hard)…the escapade stories are really good…this is one more…enjoy.
…..

I have been away from Kerala, my homeland, for
almost 20 years now. The thought of returning for good never crossed my
mind — till last Thursday, when the government spelled out its plan to
make Kerala alcohol-free in ten years.




Before you get ideas of I being a teetotaller, let me make it clear
that I like my whiskey only in large pegs, never small. Those who gasp
at the word prohibition don’t know the fun part of it. Believe me, I
have been there, done that. I landed in Hyderabad in 1995 when NT Rama
Rao had just introduced prohibition. Initially it was frustrating, being
denied one’s weekly quota of ‘mandu,’ as the Telugus call it.




But soon I discovered the pleasure of finding bootleggers, and the
process of procuring booze became as heady as having it. Indeed it was
costly at Rs 500 a bottle of rum and Rs 750 for whiskey, given that
one’s salary then would not be enough to throw a party for a handful of
friends.




As a reporter, the battle for the bottle expanded my network of
sources — to watchmen, jawans and the dark underbelly of Hyderabad.
There was Raju, a bank watchman at day and bootlegger at night. 

I don’t
know about the safety of the bank’s vaults near Khairatabad, but Raju
guarded his crate of Hercules Rum like a sentinel. One had to clank the
latch on the bank’s gate a specific number of times in a peculiar rhythm
that only Raju and his regular clients knew — and this he kept changing
every week — and Raju would emerge from the dark, the bottle cradled in
his arms.



….
Then there was John (hi John, hope you have retired and aghast in
Kerala) an army man at a barrack near Nampalli station. At midnight, I
would sneak into the nondescript building that was the shelter of a
dozen jawans, and ask for ‘sadhanam.’ Those who didn’t know the code
word and walked in to ask for rum or whiskey were driven away at
gunpoint; you ask for ‘sadhanam’ and a smiling John comes with a bottle
of sparkling dark XXX Rum ‘for defence services only.’




This network endeared me to many senior journalists in Hyderabad. I
was, in effect, the journalists’ bootlegger. Soon after sundown, my
office telephone would start ringing. The bureau chief of another
newspaper wants two bottles of whiskey, there’s a promotion party at his
place; I am invited though. 

Free drinks were the bonus of good
contacts. When I wasn’t in office — those days cell phones were a rarity
— my pager would beep with messages like ‘are we reading or writing
tonight?’ Reading meant rum, writing whiskey. Remember, you had to dial a
call centre to tell the sweet lady your message to be sent to the
friend’s pagers. Code words, you see.




The richer tipplers took to mobile bars. You hop into a car stacked
with liquor, drink as much as you want as the driver takes you through
the city for an hour or two, and you get dropped— happily sloshed. On
weekends, there were ‘conducted tours’ of insipid places on the Andhra
border where the only activity would be binge drinking on Saturdays and
Sundays before you get back to work nursing a hangover.




Prohibition as a state policy dates back to the Xia Dynasty in China
more than 4,000 years ago. Several countries and a few Indian states
have tried to impose the dry law, and most of them realised the
stupidity of it sooner than later. In Gujarat, where the law is in
force, you get the best brands of alcohol delivered at your doorstep. In
Manipur, Mizoram and Nagaland, where the official dry law runs, you get
the most indigenous of alcohol, distilled from rice, bamboo shoots and
plantain.



….
I can’t wait to have all these in Kerala. In Chennai, I have to
grapple with my sufficiently drunk brethren at dingy Tasmac shops. Soon,
in Kerala, I could put my feet up, dial the nearest bootlegger and say:
“Make it a double large, Mr Chandy.”

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Link: make-it-a-double-large-mr-chandy

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regards

Brown Pundits