In a world increasingly defined by sides, partisanship often masquerades as empathy. Whether itās Pakistanis performing concern for Indian liberalism, or Indians invoking the plight of Muslim minorities to score points against their ideological rivals, the truth is simple: if you already have a side, youāre not truly invested in the fate of the other.
This isnāt cynicism; itās structure. Sides, by their nature, demand loyalty. And loyalty comes at the expense of dispassion. You can mourn injustice selectively, but donāt pretend itās universalism. More often than not, tribalism puts on the mask of principle.
As a BahĆ”āĆ, Iāve been shaped by a millenarian vision that urges global unity; yet Iām also deeply influenced by Hindu pluralism and pagan elasticity. Nicholas Nassim Taleb once said the more pagan a mind, the more brilliant it might be (excellent article) because it can hold many contradictions without demanding resolution. That capaciousness allows one to see that not every question needs a single answer. Hinduism, with its deep pluralism, contrasts radically with Islamās (and Judaismās) uncompromising monotheism. And yet, these two traditions are bound togetherāenmeshed across centuries of history, thought, and blood. Their tension is real, but so is their shared life.
Thatās the point: opposites donāt just coexist, they form a whole. But when we prescribe change for the āother side,ā we ignore our own capacity for reform. Itās always easier to critique outward than to renovate inward. Especially in a world run by oligarchic elites and managed emotions, where empathy is choreographed and outrage monetized.
So no, the Dalit Muslims of Dharavi arenāt the problem. Nor are the marginalized Hindus of East UP and Biharis. The problem is that a single family can build a private skyscraper in Mumbai while the city gasps beneath it. Itās the system that rewards power accumulation, not its occasional victims, that should concern us.
I donāt offer neat solutions. Maybe itās taxation. Maybe itās redistribution. Maybe itās noblesse oblige. But the first step is this: stop pretending your critique of the other side is altruism. Itās not. Itās strategy. And perhaps the more honest work begins at homeāwith your own side, your own people, your own self.
