These thoughts emerged as I was replying to the 100+ comments on Omar’s post, India and Pakistan, Back to the Future..
Flight, Fragility, and the First Bollywood Snake
My first memories of Pakistan are tangled with flight and childhood fiction. In 1990, as we escaped Kuwait after the Iraqi invasion, our car crossed into Pakistani Baluchistan carrying five adults and three children. After over a month in Iran (the family gardens of Shiraz are a blurry childhood memory), where we were understandably low-key about being BahĂĄ’Ăs, I remember yelling out the car window the moment we crossed the border, âIâm BahĂĄâĂ! Iâm BahĂĄâĂ!â My family laughed (I was the youngest and always the most impetuous). The story has been retold so often I donât know where memory ends and performance begins.
But the innocence of that moment gave way quickly. I remember the poverty at the border: raw, overwhelming on both sides of Baluchistan. And then, in Karachi, came my first exposure to Indiaâthrough a Bollywood film featuring a dancing girl in a Sari transforming into a snake. That, more than any textbook, was my introduction to Hinduism. Try as it might, Pakistan is the ineffable portal to Hindustan, a mirror that reflects what it cannot contain. These memoriesâflight, fragility, and fantasyâetched into me the idea that culture moves where politics cannot.
Restraint Is the Strategy: Rethinking Peace in South Asia
South Asia is home to nearly 2 billion people. Itâs a region of nuclear states, frozen conflicts, and postcolonial trauma. Yet every time a cross-border terrorist attack kills 20 or 30 civilians, it makes global headlines. Thatâs not just because of the violenceâbut because the violence is rare. This isnât an excuse. Itâs a signal: South Asia has already learned restraint. The question is whether it can remember why.
The Bug in the Democratic Mind
After 9/11, the U.S. was angry. George W. Bush gave the people what they wanted: a war. Two, actually. Instead of a tactical mission to dismantle a terrorist network, America destabilized entire regions, wasted trillions, and incubated future threats.
This is the paradox of democracy:
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Populations demand retribution.
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Leaders comply.
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Strategy is hijacked by spectacle.
India must adopt a radically different approach. Treat Pakistan the way South Korea treats North Korea: sidestep, outperform, outgrow. Engagement legitimizes provocation. Retaliation restores parity. Indifference signals dominance. Continue reading Let Pakistan Throw Stones. India Should Build the Skyline.




